Wedding season is always a fun time of year for hairdressers. We get to experience the joy and excitement of love, and we get the privilege creating another person’s dream. Well, at least their dream hair.
I absolutely love doing hair for weddings.
It is always a day full of sweet memories. I get to observe families and loved ones spend important moments together, laughing, crying, reminiscing on times past. People gather for weddings to celebrate love, friendship, companionship, loyalty, and many more valuable traits marriage brings to life.
I have been very lucky this year to be working with a wedding consultant, Hope Schalck, owner of The Wedding Studio. If you need help with your wedding, believe me, she is your gal. Visit http://www.theweddingstudiocolorado.com
More to come on Hope and The Wedding Studio once this season calms down a little and I can catch her for an interview.
Visit my “Fancy hair” page to see a few clients I have done. These are mostly my own photos, and I am a terrible photographer. I finally put some photos up after being asked on numerous occasions, and I will get some professional photos up soon.
In no profession can you get away without performing. There is an old adage “fake it till you make it”, and this is unfortunately true. In most cases, even a hairdresser that is a natural will fumble at first. On the same note, every seasoned professional will find a client in their chair that they will not be able to satisfy once in a while. On-going training is imperative to stay current with trends, and innovative techniques often accompany flashy new equipment.
If you are just beginning, this is the best thing you can do for your career. PAY ATTENTION!
Attend as many classes as you can afford.
Apprentice or assist in a salon you want to work in long-term, build a career instead of a job.
Learn how to use every piece of equipment you own, and learn it well.
Learn the difference between cutting hair dry, damp, and wet.
Learn the difference between razor, scissor, and clipper.
Learn the textures and densities of each client. Also, how weather affects the texture of each clients hair.
Learn the products that make your job easier. This will make your clients hair work for them, rather than your client work for their hair.
Practice, practice, practice!
When you are new, offer to do everyone’s hair you know. Make sure they are aware of your skill level, though.
Pay attention to what you are doing. Be present with the hair and build on your skills in steps.
Watch others and learn from them. Notice the details- tension, where to begin, systems, directional cutting, ask coworkers what color formulas they are using and take mental note of consultation, clients hair before, and results.
Color can be very tricky- stick to one line until you fully understand how color works. Once you get a few tricks up your sleeve, experiment with other color lines and see the differences. Once you work with different ones you will see which you prefer, and which your clients prefer as well.
Don’t trash the clients hair, be cautious if you are unsure.
ASK FOR ADVICE!!! Don’t be a know-it-all from the get-go, you will fail. You will get sued. You will lose your job.
In summary, know what you are doing. If you don’t know yet… learn!
Communication: This must be crystal in order to know what the client wants. Not only words, of course communication is a whole body experience. Touch their shoulder before you touch their head to reassure them of your grace, this establishes trust in contact. Look in their eyes so they know they have your attention, listen to their choice of words in describing what they want, and analyze where they are coming from. Ask the questions that feel natural for you to comprehend what they need from you, and give them an understanding of the limitations you have (whether it is time, training, or their hair is simply not going to do what they want). Let them know your rates for their request, offer alternatives to their service and pricing if you aren’t sure they are certain or dead-set on what they want. Have consistent pricing too. People hate going to the hairdresser and having the surprise ending- that she is now charging you more than she did before but forgot to tell you. I always quote the work before I begin. It’s the only way to be fair to both the client and yourself. Don’t just come up with something either, have a base and structure additionals consistently.
Make sure you are actually connecting with your client, tap into the way they understand the world, look at their hair from their perspective. Ask as many questions as necessary, in ways that speak to that person…
Every now and then I will have a client who says, “maybe I didn’t tell the last girl what I really wanted, because look at it, it’s______.” That undesirable trait may or may not be your idea of foul play, but it most certainly is according to the client (who is no longer patronizing the last hairdresser). Communicate clearly to avoid repeat offending. My response to this is almost always, “I am the professional here, it is MY responsibility to make sure I know what you want before we begin.” Don’t argue with a client about whether their hair is gold or not, accept how they see it and make sure you do it how you have agreed.
Additionally, it’s not enough to know what someone does want, you must know what they do not want.
For all the readers who are clients, this series of articles is a valuable tool for you too. Make sure the hairdresser doesn’t proceed until you are comfortable with the communication.
Stay tuned for the 2nd secret….
After perusing the many interesting images related to wedding hair on pinterest and etsy, there is a renewed interest in veils. Birdcage veils provide a simple sense of style, luxury, and a time warp sentiment. The presentation on a bride is stunning, and not for everyone. This beautiful artistic feature, however, offers a renewed breath of romance to the bridal image.
Through the selection of veils, I am noticing women embracing their role as women, and moving past our passing era of simplicity and informality. This simple notion of a veil, is taking us further into the feminine aspects of being a bride, and showing that there is something sacred to be revealed after a ceremony of devotion is put forth. What this reflects in the idea of marriage itself is also very new and quite innovative. We are taking this classic approach to marriage, and gender roles are becoming increasingly popular- particularly after motherhood. Yet we aren’t standing down to the man, we are standing upright and saying, “no” often enough, and they certainly love and respect us for it!
I find it interesting that the women (our mothers and grandmothers) who came before fought hard to liberate the household duties imposed upon every passing generation. Here we find ourselves, not caring about whether we are a stay at home mom, even with an advanced degree. In fact, we are using our knowledge as a powerful tool to educate our own young children, especially since we can’t count on the school systems to take our kids education seriously… they must focus on more pressing issues like safety. That’s another topic….
Back to veils. The longer and more sheer veils are often adorned with jewels of the brides favorite selection. Pearls, lace, embroidered with amazing intricacy, and are usually not covering the face during the ceremony… another interesting feature of this renewed push for traditional effects incorporated in modern weddings. Rustic elegance, pretty much a coined wedding term these days.
So when you are planning your wedding, do you consider a veil, or not? What is your reason for choosing what you did? Please share!